my hermit’s life

Before I started my life as a hermit, I used to be a rational and successful (or at least: well paid) lawyer, writer, and business advisor. Resisting God’s call during fifteen long stubborn years. You can read more about it here.

However, those well paid days are over, as my vocation as a traditional hermit keeps my active income very limited. First, because of the precedence of prayer over income (you can read more about a traditional hermit’s daily life and schedule here). Second, because having achieved certain traditionally well described thresholds I’m bound - in obedience to Christ - to make my personal experience available to help others in their religious (prayer) life if and when I’m asked to do so, for free. And third, because as a traditional hermit I’m bound to stay as much as possible outside society, in order to focus solely on a life in silence and solitude dedicated to prayer and theology.

For these and other reasons I’m currently living in my car.

Living this kind of de facto homeless life helps me to live a frugal, simple, and God-centred life. Why? Because, practically speaking, this de facto poor lifestyle is currently the best way to enable me to dedicate the many necessary hours to prayer and theology (because I now need a far lower income to make ends meet, and so can work less and therefore pray and study more). Also, religiously speaking, this type of life on the edge of society and beyond helps me to stay true to my publicly professed religious vows as a hermit. These religious vows are to live my life according to the three evangelical counsels - meaning to live my life poor with the poor, in chastity, and in obedience to God (+) - and also to live my life alone, free from material and other worldly bonds, and in unconditional love (agape) to all. These publicly professed religious vows are not seen as being ‘good’ in themselves, but as enabling the most undistracted path towards attaining a ‘perfect’ life in the eyes of our Heavenly Father.

If you want to know more about my path as a hermit - and its ultimate goal of Christian perfection and holiness - then go here.

But please don’t forget: I’m certainly not perfect yet, and quite probably I'll never be. But I publicly vowed to try for the rest of my life. So you are free to measure me according to those religious vows. And I would appreciate your feedback, especially when you think I failed to live up to the high standards that are rightly expected from a hermit.

You can read more about my place within the Roman Catholic Church here.

 

For my help in your religious (prayer) life:

feel free to ask me for my help, anytime, anywhere. I’ll do it gladly. And in obedience to Christ I’ll do it for free.

You can always contact me through the contact form below, or - if you happen to meet me - ask me in person.

But respect hermit-protocol if and when you can. This means, preferably:

1. after we’ve got to know each other I will always gladly talk to you concerning practical daily issues like 'where to find the nearest supermarket', and even more to answer your questions about your religious (prayer) life, but please: no more small talk / social chitchat.

2. don’t invite me into your house for social reasons / dinner

3. don’t give me meat, alcohol, pies, cookies, nor any other not-hermit-compatible food. Though for practical, religious, and/or traditional reasons you might see me sometimes eat some of these on certain days and/or under certain circumstances, I would prefer not to get tempted outside of those permitted days/circumstances.

You can find more information about hermit-protocol on this page.

 

And last-but-not-least:

A donation is never something I expect of you in return for helping you in your religious (prayer) life, neither do I expect it when you ask me for my intercessory prayer, nor for any other religious service you might ask from me. In fact, as a hermit I try to only expect and rely on God's (+) providence. If He (+) provides for me through your voluntary kindness: great. If He (+) helps me through others and/or in other ways: equally great. Looking back on my life, He (+) has always been there for me, as I have been there for others.

donations

if you happen to be able and willing to help me (and encourage me), then please consider making a donation.

As the recently canonized Saint Mother Teresa of Calcutta phrased it:

“The Lord likes small things best, especially those done with love”

 

to: bartholomeus

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